Cribbing and Complaining
Why do we crib and complain? Possible reasons could be Total absence of gratitude for what one is gifted with and taking for granted what one has, be it the ability to see , walk , talk etc., or having a family. Constant comparisons and thereby the need to prove that one is at par if not exceeding others. Need to control everything and everyone. To continuously prove one’s own greatness or self worth by emphasising on others faults. To ensure that all concerned know that one is working hard, this could happen in scenarios where the nagging person needs to be appreciated due to low self esteem and is receiving none. To feel a victim in life – the reason for which could be once again lack of self esteem, self confidence and lack of pride for what one does. Feeding one’s own EGO by pointing out the weakness or fault of someone Too self obsessed and lack of ability to get into others shoes Simply having nothing worthwhile to speak about, nagging suits one...